“Forgiving someone doesn’t mean you’re okay with what they did. It’s more about recognizing they did something wrong and then deciding to move past it.”
Dealing with feelings is always a step-by-step thing. When emotions get you all mixed up, you need to give yourself time to get better. It’s good to be calm and not react right away to stuff, but if you keep all your feelings locked up inside, it can start to make you feel really negative. It’s important to let out those feelings that are bothering you by talking about them. Talking about what hurts isn’t just complaining, it’s like a way to clean out all the bad feelings inside you. That’s something everyone needs to do to start healing, especially when it’s really tough.